Wednesday, June 20, 2007

A couple of interesting questions regarding girls...ZzZ

What should I do if I’m already seeing this girl for a while, and I really want to create a special evening?

Lol...the very famous question...

Always creates a substantial amount of headache this is...

If you have been seeing this girl for awhile, and you REALLY want to blow her mind, DO SEVERAL THINGS THAT SHE LIKES ALL IN ONE DAY OR EVENING.

Take her to her favorite restaurant, give her a gift of her favorite flowers, wear the clothes that you know she likes, rub her shoulders, and, um... give her some good lovin'.

Romance is wonderful, as long as you don't overdo it and come across as extremely LAME.

Focus all of the things that she likes into one small window, and good things will come of it.Then don't do them again for awhile... AT ALL.

She'll talk about that night forever, and she'll always be wondering when the next one will come.


If you had no choice but to come up with how to get a woman to like you in just a couple of paragraphs, what would you say?

I hate this particular question. No doubt about that. They ask this stupid shit because they assume that there is one magical easy stress free way to get a girl to like you. But nevermind, I shall attempt to answer this question.

The way to make a woman like you is to:

1- Not act like all the other average guys out there.

2- Make her laugh.

3- Be unpredictable, challenging and mysterious.


Of course there are more ways, but these are a start.
Don't act nervous or uncomfortable.
Treat her like you've known her all your life... almost like she's your little sister or your little cousin sister.
Tease her and make her laugh.
Have fun. Keep that on your mind all the time. It reduces the stress and tension building inside.
Don't be PREDICTABLE. It makes you lame.
Be confident, be a goddamn man. Being shy and scared is just so not a guy thing.
Do things that surprise her.
Say things that keep her wanting to hear more. If you can't keep her interested with your looks and physical appeal, do it with your words.
Tell interesting stories and don't answer her questions directly... instead, make her work for the answers.

That's as brief as I can be already.


How do I get a girl's attention to begin with? In other words, what do I say to her so that she will want to talk to me for that minute you talk about? I don't feel like saying, "Excuse me, Hi... my name is... do you work around here?". And I don’t think it would be the best solution for this. Do you?

You know, it's funny...
This question is a question that every guy in the world wants to know the answer to.
It's a simple answer... and it's a DAMN complex answer at the same time.

Remember this and remember this well. The most important thing when it comes to approaching women you don't know is being able to do it as comfortably and naturally just like how you would if you would be approaching ur mommy.

If you get nervous, shaky and freaked out the woman will pick up on this... and it will make HER nervous.

You can walk up to a woman and say, "Hi, I don't have time to talk, but if you're single I'd really like to talk to you sometime... do you have a handphone number so that I could reach you again?" And if you do it in a calm, comfortable way, you can get a HIGH percentage of women to give you their number right there on the spot with no conversation needed.On the other hand, if you're freaked out, nervous and acting like you've just been caught masturbating by your mom or something then what you say does'nt matter at all.

Experts estimate that approximately 7% of your communication is the words you use and 93% is your voice tone and body language.

In other words, the WORDS aren't very important at all.
So, how do you get the voice tone and body language under control and more importantly, your EMOTIONS?
Well, this is a simple and complex problem as well.

Personally, I have found that understanding exactly how and why women feel sexual attraction for men has DRAMATICALLY changed the way I interact with women.

It's the way you make them feel... You've got to be calm, you've got to be confident.
And practice makes perfect. Remember that.

And remember this... you can choose who to love and probably even choose who to like. But you can't choose exactly who you would want to be attracted to. Attraction is not a choice.

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